It appears that some people have tighter fitting hoods than others. If you have a non-tight hood, you will be fine opening and closing it using the normal instructions. If you have a tight fit, you will either need to be comfortable having the crease (even flawlessly executing the perfect frunk closing procedure), or just forgo ever using the frunk.
I have a tight fit, opened the frunk less than 5-10 times with Olympic-quality flawless execution, and still got a crease.
The service center also opened it during services, but I wasn't there to observe their technique. After having it repaired, I have simply decided to never use the frunk, except in cases of extreme luggage need. The trunk has tons of room, so for most needs, the extra bit of frunk space is not usually necessary.
Tesla still needs to address this significant design flaw, but hasn't and likely won't. They provide repairs on a case by case basis, but from what I seen, they have not changed the structural design of the hood to fix the problem (I don't count orange goo as a fix).
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You're mostly right, the opportunities someone would have to close the frunk improperly when you are nearby are few and far between. Still, Runs' point is also valid. You shouldn't need to stress over whether someone will close the frunk improperly in the 2 seconds you aren't watching it like a hawk.
Tesla should do what it takes to beef up the frunk so that it can be safely closed without oversight. How much would the extra aluminum required add to the price of the car? $10? $100? I'm sure most owners would agree it's a worthwhile endeavor to not have to worry about it anymore.
I'm not sure if the issue originates with a manufacturing defect in the aluminum, as some have suggested, or variations in latch and seal height that cause variations in the amount of force necessary to close the frunk. However, it seems like it should be fixable by Tesla by incorporating a high-strength lightweight substructure (nylon or other very rigid plastic) directly under the aluminum front part of the hood. This would not add much cost, but would eliminate any possibility of flex in the aluminum.