Coming from someone that has a brand new 2023 MYLR with major phantom braking issues here is what I think (see my other post about my experience).
1. If you plan on driving long range in this vehicle, do NOT get it (ex: road trips, and highway driving on desert type highways like we have in the Southwest, AZ, NV, CA, UT). There are other reasons not to get it for long range driving that I've now discovered, such as the significantly shorter range than advertised. But the phantom braking is what really makes the long drives unpleasant since you'll want to use some form of cruise control and the car will make that scary.
2. If you plan on city driving mostly, get it. It's a fun car to drive and the tech in it is pretty innovative and neat.
Also... a thing I've noticed about this forum. A lot of the "regulars" are hardcore tesla fanboys that will never admit to having a single issue with their car and their opinion is not to be trusted. Take their advice with a grain of salt. I got accused of being a bot, troll and dishonest just for posting my experience with phantom braking.