From the photo, it looks nice, and the pattern probably hides smudges pretty well.Here's what it looks like installed in my M3. The 'carbon fiber' adds the look with a little texture but not heavily textured like actual carbon fiber. I'm very happy with it as I was not looking for a completely 'flat' look. The Abstract Ocean products are great.
Congrats on your new MY. Wife wants one!
I fully support your wife having a Model Y, just so long as it's not mine. I like mine so I'm keeping it, flaws and all. The car, not your wife; I'm sure she's flawless.