I don't understand why folks here are so on the side of defending a company.
A company with dis-satisfied customers isn't a good company. I can't imagine what its going to look like when they do this to a mass market vehicle such as the M3 - with people who are counting pennies just to get one in their driveway. Good luck.
It isn't about being on the side of a company, it is about pointing out irrational expectations when you see them.
You tend to speak in absolutes, and that's fine, I suppose - it does make things nice and simple. But the problem with that is it results in statements that don't accurately represent what is
real. And that's why you are getting pushback. You call it a lack of empathy, but it isn't that at all; it is pushback against irrational representations that don't match up against the real state of things.
Let's take this statement as an example:
"A company with dis-satisfied customers isn't a good company."
Really? Is that
really what you think? I personally would argue that this is a viewpoint which just doesn't coincide with reality. Why? Well, for one thing, because you can take any company of any size and find some percentage of dissatisfied customers. There are a lot of reasons for that. Sometimes it is because the company legitimately screwed up, sometimes it is because the company made a decision to do something unpopular. Sometimes it is because people are just being unfair. Apple is a great example. There are plenty of people who are mad at Apple at any given time. Often it is for conflicting reasons. Some people are mad that Apple took away their standard headphone jack. Other people are pleased because doing so allowed the phone to be more water resistant. Who is correct? Does it matter? Apple is alternatively either the most valuable or second most valuable company on earth. It sells its products globally, and has by many metrics the most recognized and respected brands on earth. Apple continuously wins awards for highest consumer satisfaction. Yet, by your logic, the existence of some unhappy customers means Apple is a bad company.
How is that rational?
The problem with much of what you have stated is that is emotional and, contrary to what you suggest, not practical.
I will say again the same thing I have stated multiple times - a point you have assiduously ignored: having compassion for someone does not require that one agree with their irrational viewpoints or faulty logic.
Compassion does not equate to agreement. I have two little boys and I very frequently run across situations where one or both earnestly want something - where they are indeed emotionally broken because of their sense of indignation over a perception of being treated unfairly - and my compassion and empathy for them doesn't mean I simply agree that they are correct. This is not, contrary to what you may think, much different: It is possible to feel badly for someone while disputing the rationality or feasibility of what they want.