C141 - Welcome to the tesla posse...you'll get used to having some issues and not getting things that were promised...but it is worth it. They are victims of their own success and will catch up at some point...just hope that they have a couple of stalk modules in stock so that they can find one that works, for you....took three tries for me...
re the steering wheel, that is a standard thing, they tell me (I had it), there is only one position for the wheel to go on (it isn't a spline like normal wheels) and it is connected through a neural network that learns as it goes (even supposed to compensate for torque due to road crown angle) - mine has improved substantially since I got it....and good or bad, when they give you a new stalk module, it will have to learn all over again...