So do all 3 tire variations offered in the model 3 have this pad?
Yes, all current Tesla tires, no matter the model, size or manufacturer come equipped with the run-silent foam pad. As far as Costco Tire Centers are concerned, they're known for damaging wheels beyond repair. As far as run flats, they're a PAIN to install and replace. Besides I don't believe you can retrofit them onto non-RunFlat Tesla wheels.