You may be confusing individual segments results summed together with the results from a single long trip. It makes a huge difference, due to the massive drain which can occur when sitting (for various reasons). Feel free to post starting rated miles, ending rated miles, and the consumption (Wh/mi) and distance traveled for each segment. You really have to be careful to not include any rated mile use when in Park.
It will likely work out perfectly - for most people it does. Just gather the data (photos right as you put it into drive and right as you put it in park are ideal), and it will make sense.
Regarding the 220 miles indefinitely - unfortunately the way Tesla has apparently always treated this (so I have been told) has been to scale your range according to the % "degradation" of the battery. So they don't simply hide degradation from you even if you have purchased an SR with 220 rated miles which is top locked. They basically just always let you charge to ~91% or 92% (~220/240, max, these are only rough percentages) of whatever maximum battery capacity you have.
For whatever reason, your car thinks your battery has degraded by 8% (202/220). We don't really know why - you might at some point get it back...hard to say.