Your electricians need some retraining. They don't realize that the continuous usage of an EV mandates that the wire and breaker be oversized by 25% for a given load.
As to whether 6-2(6-3 is overkill and completely unnecessary for an HPWC) will support 48 amps, it will, and would be within the rules in Canada. But you aren't in Canada, and if your house happens to burn down your insurance will probably tell you to go screw. I myself am running 48 amps through 6-2 NMB that's in my 60F basement for its entire run, which allows me, even within the extremely conservative rules of the NEC, to run like 47.5 amps through it continuously.