Well I did speak to a lawyer about it. Its a he said she said thing. No way to prove it. She did say she could send them a letter....and that they would probably turn it over to their insurance.....The body shop guy said it happened most likely in transport. Really I would just like to drive the car which I've now owned like 5 weeks. I'll flip to a different insurance company if they raise my rates; it was not road damage.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but switching insurance companies doesn't make a claim go away...