This strict enforcement all started when everyone wanted to put orders on hold late last year waiting for BBB to start on 1/1/22 and we all know how that bill ended up.
I read that some people had orders from 2020 that were on hold and never heard a peep from Tesla until last November. Then they started crying that it wasn't fair and thought Tesla was being mean.
really??
Then again your friend could get lucky like I did. I had two Tesla ordered last summer to take advantages of a great NJ instant rebate program on EV, a Model 3 LR which I took delivery in September and a Model Y LR. I received three vin numbers for the Model Y, one in November one in December and one in January. I did nothing and figured to let it auto cancel like the contract stated but order keep going back on hold automatically and then released. I also received the cancelation email in November to remove hold by 11/16 but it went back in queue automatically again twice. Tesla finally called me last week for the first time since I ordered asking if I still wanted the Model Y and they would remove hold to get back in queue but I declined and took a few days for the order to delete from my account.
I also had the old pricing at a $5k discount but with all the improvements on the upcoming Model Y coming from Fremont and soon Austin I just gonna reorder again once I see people getting the updated cars but thinking about getting the MYP instead.
Luckily thanks to the used car market, I will not lose a dime selling my Model 3 and currently will profit $4k if I sold today. Hopefully another NJ rebate program comes out this summer as well to get some more free cash.