dgpcolorado
high altitude member
I can't bring myself to do that. When I get gas for my chainsaw I park away from the pumps and carry my gas can over. Like the OP, to me it just feels "wrong" to park an EV at a gas pump....
On #7, go ahead and park at a gas station stall in one of your Teslas if there is no one waiting. Even if you sell your gasoline yard tools. We are now a 2 Tesla family (love the model 3), no ICE, and I do that all the time to wash the windshield. I even go inside to ask the cashier to turn on the air and water if I need to fill my tires or washer fluid. I figure I've contributed to the oil companies plenty over the years.
After my first bug-filled road trip, I purchased a window squeegee and carry it and a bucket in my trunk for cleaning bugs off of the windshield at Supercharger stops. No gas station visits for me unless absolutely necessary!