I would scratch the Pirellis off your list. They are top-rated in the Grand Touring category on TireRack.com but I'm a little disappointed with the AS+3.
I LOVED the original Pirelli P7 AS+ on my Lexus LS460 and Model S. That was a fantastic tire, quiet, plush ride, and confident grip in the wet.
While the AS+3 is equal or better than the Model Y OEM tire in every area:
-better ride
-noticeably better grip/handling
-equal level of quietness/noise
-about equal efficiency
-costs less
-longer treadlife
the tire overall did not impress me as much as the original P7 AS+.
In particular, the AS+3 rubber compound became very stiff when temperatures dropped below 50 F. The once comfortable warm weather ride became extremely stiff and actually worse than the OEM tire in same cold conditions. I ran the OEM tire at 38 PSI and felt it had a comfortable ride year-round. The AS+3 in cold weather was the first time I complained about the Y's ride quality.
Under hard acceleration I would have to work to keep the Y straight with the OEM tires and the Pirellis definitely gripped the road more securely but there was still some wiggle detected. Next set of tires I'm gonna go with the Continental DWS06+ or Michelin Pilot Sport AS4 for better grip (and hopefully softer ride) and sacrifice some efficiency.