3 phase upgrade is chargeable, so that ain't happening.Ask them for a 3 Phase Upgrade, free of charge.
I did... they agreed.
BUT, you MUST ask them.
They will upgrade to 3 Phase cabling, and a 3 Phase cutout, but only connect one phase to your meter. You can then decide what to do later.
Don't upgrade to a Smart Meter until after the work is complete, preferably...
The contractor are allowed to move the meter.