Paired chargers are not always adjacent to each other so that tip doesn't always apply. Some locations have stalls laid out as 1A, 1B, 2A, 2B, 3A, 3B. Other locations might have 1A, 2A, 3A, 1B, 2B, 3B. In other locations, they may not be in any logical order at all! A better tip to follow would be to look for numbered chargers where both are A and B stalls are empty. If both A and B stalls for the same number (1, 2, 3, etc.) are empty then the Supercharger is not paired and your charging speed won't be affected by another car that is already charging.
Also, there are new Urban Superchargers which look totally different (and are still quite rare). At Urban Superchargers, there is no sharing so you'd never need to consider other cars when selecting a stall to charge at.