I’m looking at your crappy list above, thinking, I’ve experienced 10 times worse from many of the other auto makers I’ve dealt with over the years.
I still think people just need to dramatize in order to validate themselves or something.
My latest service experience: To get one decal installed on my car it took FIVE visits. 3 mobile service, including one no show by the mobile tech and 2 service center visits. For one decal. Everytime they would either forget to order the part, or mess up the install and only have 1 part available. Finally got it installed when I refused to take the car back after the last service visit where it had not been installed. Maybe you have had that kind of poor service experience with another make, but I sure haven't.
I remember thinking I would never put up with that level of incompetence from any other manufacturer except Tesla. Then I wonder why I accept it from Tesla?