Well, you were an early adopter with your M3. So, all this time you have been driving a Tesla.. lucky man.
I promised myself in 2015, that one day I would own a Tesla. That day arrived; 290622. MY LR red/white
I can understand hesitancy in changing for another model, I would not be in a rush either. However, as you now have three children, you have rightly plunged based, I would imagine on desire, need ( justification) and manageable finance.
I hope the ducks stay in their row and you go ahead.
The MY LR is a great car and on reflection, with your burgeoning brood, you may be changing to a MY 7 seater in the future
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