I don't think we have the full answer from Tesla with regards to what exactly has been happening with the charging R&D for Model S over the past couple of years.
My guess is that some time was 'wasted' trying to coordinate with SAE, IEC and such until they finally decided they had to go their own way.
I also guess that they might be a little behind on having a 'global solution' ready. Since they may not have a coordinated, finalized strategy ready we may be getting different information from different people about the current state of affairs and future plans.
Just as a data point - they showed off the new UMC2, but not HPC2, and the UMC2 had prototype plug ends on them, not the universal plug adapters that they say will be on the production versions. So I gather they rushed together some prototypes to show off even though they aren't totally done yet. Also, with all the parts scattered around the factory demo, I didn't personally see any chargers so it seems like they are either too new, or in some state of flux as well.
My guess is that Tesla is all too aware of these mainland Europe charging concerns, they value that market, but they just don't have their final answer ready yet.
I see a few possible ways out of this:
#1: A small / cheap portable 3 phase to DC adapter that you can take with you on road trips.
or
#2: An alternative charger option so that you can order the car with a 3-phase capable charger option for European customers only. It would likely need to come with a different socket on the car that supports 3-phase, which could mean adapters to UMC2 / HPC2, or alternate versions of those that have the 3-phase type plug end even though you might only use it for 1 phase sometimes.
or
#3: They really do manage to install 90kW Tesla style DC fast chargers in enough global public locations to satisfy their customers.
& They also provide a home 3phase to DC charger that can do 10kW through the DC socket.
(I think this would be the preferred option, but many of us are dubious that they could pull this off.)
[ Note, with this option you could almost get away with having no charger in the car at all !]
or
#4: They provide DC adapters for CHAdeMO and/or Mennekes/J1772 DC Combo plugs so that Model S can charge off of upcoming shared, public DC infrastructure instead of public 3-phase AC.