jkirkebo
Model S P85+ VIN 14420 EU
Yes, so long as the proprietary plug meets all the other standards referenced in IEC 61851-1 then a cable assembly can be used to connect two different connectors (that's how we connect Type 1 "J1772" to Type 2 "mennekes" Charging Stations).
This only works for Mennekes charging stations up to 22kW. Those just have a socket you can plug your own cable into. The 44kW charging stations does however come with cable & Mennekes plug already connected, since the separate cables stop at 32A.
And I do want 44kW Mennekes three-phase charging on my Model S (even if it tops out at 30kW, which I hope it doesn't). So the solution then is either a Mennekes socket on the car or an adapter.
And a CHAdeMO socket in the frunk is a good idea. I have at least 20 CHAdeMO stations within range of my Leaf, for the Model S next year there should be 50+. Since I'll never have to fast charge more than once a day, 44-50kW is good enough.