(1) I'm confused. The official site shows the 120, 125, and 130 mph limits depending on which configuration you get. Your concern was/is that they don't say whether the limit is software or hardware enforced? Or was your concern that they advertise one number (120+) and then limit it something lower (85)? I can assure you if it was the latter, the web site would likely be changed by now because many of us the forum would be peltering them with email about "fraud" type concerns.
(2) Many of us assume that forum time (human reading/writing) and space (server) is respected. With that, there is often an expectation that most people will read the official information in depth (I'm not talking web searches for hours on end, just the top level teslamotors.com info) before having additional unanswered questions to discuss further at the forums. Perhaps that assumption is wrong, perhaps not. But that's the context, I think, for the "lousy" assertion.
(3) Great. I'll ignore the potential sarcasm, and hope that you took it as constructive criticism rather than a censorship thing.
Cheers.