How could you have know this since 2012 when both Android Auto and Apple Car Play were introduced in 2015 and 2014 respectively? Are you implying that technologies that did not exist when the Model S first launched, we should not expect to be added as features to the latest Model S?
I am only speaking for myself, but I was fully aware that my 2013, 2020 and 2022 Model S did not have CarPlay or Android Auto, but that does not mean I cannot be shocked that a car this advanced still does not have features even the most basic, non-carputer based vehicles have?