LOL, I got a response to my question why the Autopilot + FSD doesn't show up in the mytesla (web portal) car details:
Response:
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I am going to recommend walking through the steps shown below with your vehicle and then allow for a full overnight sleep cycle and charge session. After that, you may want to log out of your Mobile app. and then log back in. Let me know if you still do not see the option listed there and send a screen shot of that, again, and I will have our team look into this for you.
Reset your Touchscreen
This will reset the main display
• Make sure that the vehicle is in park.
• Press and hold both scroll wheels located on the steering wheel
• Continue pressing and holding the scroll wheels until the white Tesla 'T' logo appears on the screen
• This can take up to 60 seconds - release from the scroll wheels when the logo shows up
• move to next process
Power Cycle
This will shut down all vehicle systems
• Make sure that the vehicle is in park.
• Make sure it is not plugged in to charger
• Make sure there are no USB cables plugged into USB ports
• Make sure doors are closed and windows are rolled up
• Navigate to the controls menu > safety & security > power off
• turn the power off and leave it off for 3 minutes - be sure not to move because there is a sensor in driver seat that will turn it back on.
• after 3 minutes press the brake pedal or open the door
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