In CA, the power company is responsible for power to the meter, and the homeowner the rest of the way. When I bought my first Model S, the power company came out, without my request, and put in a larger transformer and new service. My electrician put in a bigger circuit panel. (It's an old house, and it needed it.) But I can't imagine blacking out a building. I only pull about 30 amps at night, after midnight.