I remain to be convinced this is universally a real requirement (although there are some who insist it is real for them).
One point: pumping the gas (and paying for it), using the restroom and buying a drink is a 10-11 minute process, not 5. Granted, since you can simultaneously charge your vehicle and do the restroom/drink thing, the 10-11 minutes will seem longer than a fuel stop, but in reality it won't be.
Another is that adding 400 miles of range (6 hours of non-stop driving) is overkill for many drivers. It's an arbitrary benchmark based on what most ICE vehicles are capable of, but not a hard and fast requirement. Plus, if you alternate short stops with longer stops (to accommodate the need to ingest more than just a cup of coffee), even 150kW charging rate is sufficient to support many driving styles. 250kW charge rates, even if tapering relatively quickly, is sufficient for most travelers.
But I know I am mostly preaching to the choir.
That said, your point is valid. If there is a need for faster charging (to support Cybertrucks towing for example), then the connector, as well as possibly the electric infrastructure at the site, is probably going to be insufficient. A possible solution would be to adopt island-mounted pedestals and architect the CT with a charge port on both sides of the vehicle to support charging from two stalls at once, similar to the semi's ability to connect to multiple Supercharger pedestals.