Update to the group - TM pushed out the fixed 4.3 to me today, and everything works now. It must have to do with the tolerances in the software for whatever it checks in terms of the electricity. I appreciate all of the help that Chris from the Chicago service center provided.
A couple of notes: Tesla appreciates our input and feedback, including these forums. Essentially we help them diagnose the problem with our ideas and reports. This augments their efforts and leads to a quicker solution for us (customers).
IlliniT - I hope your issue gets resolved. Perhaps you have a cord issue - not sure what it would be about. I think a solution for you will happen soon (gut feel).
For the power spike theory, I don't think that is happening here - otherwise, why would we be able to charge no problem with 4.2?
Anyway there clearly was an issue with the original 4.3 and to some extent it has been fixed (not perfect yet - i.e., IlliniT).