You should note what the voltage to the car is. My house, for example, will show anywhere between 240 - 247 Volts on the IC when plugged in. If we are busy cooking, running AC and what not - I've seen it drop down to 238Volts - that's just the house pulling more amps than normal and the natural change is a slight drop in voltage as a result. The car in these moments might drop down to 39 or 38 amps - that is all normal.
A high resistance drop will drop - which is what is suggested is the issue you have - would drop the voltage to something way lower than normal, like maybe 200 or 180 volts. That alone would indicate there is a problem with the wiring. It also as a result would drop the amps from 40 to something way lower (like 30 amps).
You mentioned you had TeslaFi. If you look at your charging history to see if there are any clues there. Go to "Charges" -> "Charge Summary" and then click at your home location to see a report like what I have below:
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