I guess your complaints starting with the order stage will serve you in good stead on this forum as its completely full of dissatisfied whinging customers who criticise pretty much everything about Tesla, everything about Musk and every single update over the air and usually also add "Not what i expected with a 50K car"
Tesla do not attract the enthusiasts in the majority like real petrol head forums- but i do accept and acknowledge there are quite a few enthusiasts on the forum who have a balanced view of the cars and its foibles and accept the journey in this new electric age we are transitioning to, though those who are happy with their cars tend to be labelled as "fan Boys" who will accept anything just because its Tesla.
I know all forums have their share of criticisms of the vehicles characteristics or perhaps common issues and I accept the forums are the place to air these and many complaints are valid - however common themes here are to rubbish everything about the car which i feel is unfair - If people want a perfect car it doesn't seem wise to order a car from a technology company rather than an established vehicle manufacturer with 50 plus years of production where many issues, tips or tricks are well known and addressed.
Tesla are pushing the boundaries of what is possible with BEVs, they have large teams working on AI, battery development, Efficiencies in motor production - they tend to continue development in all areas even those well in advance of other BEV manufacturers - they don't seem to ever accept there is a limit to development or perhaps a more reliable solution available using older technology - for instance the Wipers - they continue to develop their bespoke system to get the wipers to behave better rather than accept and fit a 50p sensor from Ford which would fix the reliability and please many owners.
I've had many Porsche in the past and most of them cost a fair bit more than my M3P, they are renowned for reliability, speed, luxury and build quality and have donkeys years of experience building cars - yet they are riddled with poor quality parts that fail regularly - for instance - The Boxster. Eats Maf sensors, drain holes block and water ingress to the car which leads to soggy carpets and Porsche fit a control module under the passenger seat which gets wet and fries itself. The intermediate shaft bearings failing which takes out the engine completely, Light switch failures and wheel bearings made of Bon Bons - So price alone means very little.
My car isn't perfect, but I never expected it to be - I purchased with my eyes open and with realistic expectations and I don't consider the price exorbitant - not cheap, but real value for money.
I sincerely hope you fully enjoy your new car and the experience of owning what i consider to be the best EV in production today, every drive is an absolute pleasure and if it rains and your wipers don't sweep - just press the left stalk button - its not exactly an arduous task is it? and if you order FSD or EA don't expect you can read the newspaper after plotting the route - sit in the back seat and let the car do the driving -its all only an assist system