You can find used 7 pin Tesla units for sale on the web (eBay etc) +-$250. I would doubt connecting the unit would be as easy as plug and play. Probably the VIN/vehicle ID does not have the Radar required SW enabled. Wishful thinking.
I would think so too: the software probably has to know whether or not radar should be available on the car so it would know if the car is working as designed. Some enterprising individual could test it: plug a radar unit in and see if the software recognizes it. I also wonder the opposite: if you unplug the radar on a radar equipped car, if it would switch to vision only. I doubt it, primarily because on a car that has radar, it'd probably throw an error because that particular car should have working radar.
Mike