That's rough. You are obviously a huge Tesla supporter. You've defended Tesla when you thought they were unfairly criticized. You spent plenty on this. Tesla needs to determine whether this is a fixable problem (long term), or sales will come to a screeching halt.
The cost of re engineering a conventional door would be huge, but might be the only answer.
June has been a rough month for Tesla. They certainly have their plate full with potential suspension problems, continuing drive unit problems, the SolarCity acquisition, now the AutoPilot failure. Hopefully they won't forget the customers that brought then this far, as they pivot to engineering the Model 3.
Wohmman sounds like a keeper as she continues to make time to schedule visits to the service center!
It's a shame. Your post is honest and well reasoned. Yet the 'Dislikes'......