b) there are repeated statements by multiple persons (if not the majority of those who argue vehemently for 3-phase) that with 3-phase, 90 kW DC fast charging isn't important, and this point of view is a major mistake from my point of view.
I suppose I am one of those... This is what I have been arguing for years now:
Single phase up to 16 A is important because that's what we will have to use when nothing better is available.
For the reasons given in my previous post, home charging, opportunity charging and destination charging in Europe will be done with 3-phase power.
CHAdeMO at 50 kW will not be able to compete in Europe because 63 A, 400 V charge points are almost as powerful but much less expensive. The availability of 63 A, 400 V charge points will therefore quickly exceed that of CHAdeMO - as long as 63 A, 400 VAC chargers are sufficiently inexpensive. They are, and within a few years, the 3-phase charger will be integrated into the PEM, further reducing the cost dramatically.
100 kW quick chargers is a different matter, they offer much more power than a 63 A outlet can provide. The cost will naturally be higher, and so will the price you pay. Nobody will want to travel to one, pay a premium and wait while charging when they can charge for less while going about their business. But when you need to extend the range and are already on your way towards the next charger along the highway, nothing can beat high power DC. The German infrastructure plan recognizes this, but notes that at the time of writing, no standard had emerged.
I've never argued against support for any DC charger type, or at least, that has not been my intention. As long as they implement the same communication protocol, any DC charger should be trivially simple to support via adapters. What I dislike is public money being wasted on the dead end called CHAdeMO (again, in Europe). Experimentation and test projects is ok to a certain extent. Attempting to build something real based on it is not ok.
And 3-phase support is much more important than DC in Europe. We can build a practical, working EV infrastructure without DC, but not the other way around. That does not mean that we should not have both.