If Tesla would support 3-phase AC charging through onboard chargers it will be market specific.i think its a good idea to compare the situations in Europe and America. It looks like, that the NEMA-50 is quite popular in America like the CEE 3x16A is in Europe. I think you wont be happy to have a charger which supports 3x16A but could not do higher currents? or can do 3x32A but not even 1x40A?
So the US Model S will ship with a 1-phase 20kW charger, where the European model will ship with a 3-phase 22kW charger (limited to 32A on 1-phase).
You probably shouldn't expect the best of both worlds, high power 1-phase and 3-phase. I also don't see that being useful anywhere in the world.