hmm.. i know this is off topic for this thread you created so I apologize for that. To answer your question, it seems like about 30 seconds in general for the phone to connect to her car, carplay or not. it feels slow compared to my model 3 for sure.Does it take a while to connect the phone to the car? I've seen with some aftermarket wireless Carplay dongles it can take up to a minute to establish a connection.
The standard Carplay doesn't interest me much but with a jailbroken iPhone you can run almost any app on it so it's much better.
Hers is a 2019 X3 so its not "old" and we factory ordered it with basically every option, so its not because we missed ordering something. Its just slow to connect, slow to present apps on the screen (like spotify, that it supports in both carplay and through the idrive interface) etc.
I dont think its a minute, but its definitely 30 seconds +