So you know what the Monroney label of a car that you haven't picked yet is going to say before you chose a car at a dealer?
With Tesla you pick the options when you order, most other cars you pick the options most suitable to you from the options on the dealer's lot.
AFAIK, on the earliest Model Ys, the data connector was below the charging pad, they then moved it to the glovebox. That's the only place that I know that the data connector has been, all others are charge only.
And I'm sorry, I just don't fell that lumbar support, the location of the data port, matrix headlights, cover for the hatch area are significant enough to ANYONE to cancel their order. Actually, probably 98% don't even realize the difference (except for the cover).
The rim change should have been listed, as it is a line on the order.