This is true, the EVs I've driven that are quieter weigh like 700-1000 lbs more than a dual motor Model 3. The Model's light weight - for a long range EV - is absolutely a feature to me.They need to balance it against weight and mileage
That doesn't excuse excess wind noise from inconsistent assembly though. Anyone who has especially loud wind noise from where the windshield meets the roof, that's an issue with your car, not all Model 3 are like that (at least not all 2021+) and Tesla ought to fix yours if it is.