Update on this:
The guy I was speaking to ended up ghosting me all day. I was finally able to get ahold of him nearly 10 hours later and he said that he was unable to match me to the car and basically left it at that. It is frustrating after hearing this news because he pretty much gave me a guarantee that he would be able to match me to the car. He told me that to match to a pre-production car, you have to start a new order (pay the now higher price of the car, the $100 deposit, and $500 to have it shipped to the SC.) I was told my by SA I should go ahead and sell the car I already had since I was trading into Vroom and not Tesla. I was only conditionally approved for my car so I had to trade in or sell the car to complete the terms on my financing and thus complete my pre-delivery tasks. I am now sharing a car with my wife, which is more difficult than I thought it would be, and my delivery estimate has disappeared for 3 days now. I feel like I am stuck in some Tesla purgatory with no insight on when I will get out.
TLDR; I was told I would be matched to a pre-production car and then told they were unable to match me 10 hours later.