I decided several years ago to always rent any car I am considering purchasing, BEFORE I buy it.
I was able to get the local Tesla store to allow me to take a Model 3 home for the night, so my son could decide for sure if he preferred the Model 3 or the BMW M240 (he took delivery of his new Model 3 Performance this past Saturday)
My point is, rent a Model Y on Turo for a day or two, and really live with it! (It'll cost you a few bucks, but small change compared to purchasing an expensive car, then realizing a month later that you're not happy with it)
A 20 minute test drive just doesn't tell you enough about any car!
I've had my Y Performance since end of December, and love it, but the fact that *I* love it doesn't mean that YOU will love it!
Good luck!