My experience is similar to everyone here, frustrating.
My SA emailed me after I placed an order online, and congrats me on the purchase, I mention to him about the FSD transfer, and he reply back saying he'll get the paperwork to me that same day.
And after that, never replied to my email and return my voice message I left. Being in the Bay Area, everything was happening very quickly.
I order on 8/1, got my VIN on 8/3, and ask me to schedule delivery on 8/4.
When I try to delay not scheduling the delivery date on the app, Tesla called and say I'll lose my VIN if I don't schedule delivery.
Fed up and somewhat anxious, I schedule delivery for yesterday (8/7), and in the notes section, I mentioned FSD transfer paperwork not complete, DO NOT deliver the car to my house. I will not accept delivery.
As it got close to the weekend, I end up making a visit to the Santana Row Tesla store, and someone there got me the FSD transfer PDF right away, I sign it and email it back to him, and he opened a case for me. Everything is very manual on their end.
I was checking the invoice and nothing has been updated, so I went back to the same store again on Sunday, told the person I have a schedule delivery date tomorrow, and they fire off an email to the team/person handling these request. 30 minutes later, the person at the store text me and say paperwork has been done.
Lesson for others in similar situation, visit your local Tesla store (if possible), and talk to a real person. I suppose they can't ignore you if you're standing right in front of them.
Now they deliver the car to my driveway yesterday, but they haven't withdraw the money from my bank yet. Can I take the money back and leave the country? Darn technology, Tesla can track my car anywhere.