For all the reasons you mentioned, I ordered some 17lb Enkei 18x9s and had some tall tires (255/45R18) mounted on them before I even picked up my M3P. Unfortunately, within hours of pickup, I realized these particular Enkei 18s wouldnt fit over the calipers, which I wasn’t quite willing to do.
Fortunately, It turns out:
1: The 20s don’t ride
nearly as bad as I expected, even for my wife (who describes her TRD Pro 4Runner as riding like a “horse-drawn carriage.” This now includes the vehicle being lowered on coil springs.
2) The Uberturbines honestly turn heads, and grew in me as well. I have had other vehicles with aftermarket wheels and never had as many compliments as I get with the Ubers. Of note, my wife liking them was a big motivation to keep them.
3) While I am skeptical there is truly zero perceptible benefit in acceleration between different wheel sizes, the math does check that we are talking basically only a ~2% gain in effective HP by going with the lightest possible wheels and tires from the Uberturbines. That difference also occurs with a <10% change in SOC or a <10 degree (F) change in battery temp. In other words, lots of very common variables will make more of a difference than you will feel from light wheels and tires (I include tires because there is a notable difference in tire weight depending on brand and tire category).
Granted, I would have made back most of the expense selling the factory Ubers, but I think a better initial investment would be MPP Comfort Coilovers.
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