So, bear with me here, but I'm thinking of revenue potential beyond just home ISP. I'm sure this has been mentioned before in a Starlink thread (and is probably why Elon gets peppered by the banking types on putting starlink in cars). In theory, it's possible to shrink a satellite transceiver enough to fit into something just a little bit larger than a cell phone. It would be a device thicker than a cell phone, but still smaller than current Sat phones. This would open up 2nd and 3rd world countries with poor quality or expensive cellular systems to a voice and internet service from Starlink. Eventually we could be looking at IoT devices (the cell phone receptor in my SunPower system SUCKS - just as a quick thought) that are outside of covered cellular areas.
Starlink is something that should have a good number of traditional industries (ISPs, rural cell providers, alarm companies that charge outrageous rates for wireless connectivity, etc.) scared shitless.
Do you have any backup for your contention of shrinking antenna sizes that small? If not, then what's the point of speculating. I mean, I can imagine lots of things, doesn't mean they are possible.