Tesla is avoiding answering because every possible answer is harmful to them and helps us.
Perhaps I am naive and dumb, but I don't see it that way. I don't think it needs to be a zero sum game as I still believe in the company mission and in Elon. The last thing I want is for Tesla to no longer exist. First of all, I don't want to end up like a Fisker owner and I also don't want the industry as a whole to backslide on sustainable transportation because Elon no longer has his foot on their collections necks.
But, I want my house to burn down even less. When my son is home, he sleeps in a room directly above where I park my car.
If Tesla came back and said, hey we found an issue with the battery pack, and we made some temporary changes for your safety until we figure things out, I'd be perfectly content with that. The template for this is how they handled the car fires from road debris a few years ago--once they explained themselves, I think most owners were mollified.
With their current approach, I am not sure what to think.