Yes ... and these aren't even "wings" in the sense they'll be used for lift. They're just for control on reentry, yet they're getting larger, adding more points of failure, thermal issues, etc. The prototypes are already significantly over the design mass.Wing has benefits, such as cross range, more stability, and maneuverability. However, wing = weight and cost, especially when a vehicle is re-entering atmosphere from outside of LEO. Expensive and complex thermal protection systems will be needed, but at the same time, weight will need to be minimized. These are very complex thermal/structural problems to be solved, which is why most in the aerospace world aren't trying to duplicate the Space Shuttle orbiter unless cross range and runway landing are design requirements.
I thought the Shuttle taught everyone that reusable second stages were a bad idea and that all that matters is usable mass in orbit. STS had huge mass to LEO but most of that mass, the Orbiter, came back home. Starship will be the same.