Having suffered an unnecessarily bumpy delivery process myself, the phrase "nothing else will matter" doesn't sit right with me.
If Tesla doesn't get their act together soon on customer experience, it won't matter how good the car is.
Word of mouth is critical. I have a few friends who are about to finalize their orders and wanted to check with me about my experience. What I have to tell anyone who asks is: "I love the car, it's awesome and I don't, even for a second, regret the purchase. It's short on luxury options for the price point so it's a better experience if its your first luxury car. And most critically, only if you can stomach paying 6 figures to have your calls dodged, are you ready to purchase a Telsa. Seriously, at times it's going to feel like you're getting scammed by a boiler room operation."
The Model S is at a price point that requires a bit of irrational exuberance to justify. A purchase and delivery process full of negativity infects the entire ownership experience longterm.
Once the bubble of excitement is popped by atrocious customer service, it's hard not to constantly focus on what the car isn't, and there's plenty that the Model S isn't.
Okie, ignore the trolls on this forum. They are a complete liability to Tesla's ultimate success.
I too was within hours of canceling my order.
If your sense of betrayal due to Tesla Motor's poor communication is too much to overcome, you should feel totally justified in demanding your money back and walking away.
There are lesser cars that may provide a better ownership experience/cost ratio. Only you can know for sure that the experience of owning a Model S will make up for the unpleasantries of procuring one.
I had good fortune that in the last 12 hours of 2012, 5 Tesla employees went well above and beyond the call of duty to get my Model S legally delivered in 2012. Against all odds, they personally put it in my driveway at 8:32pm New Years Eve. Without that last minute flurry of high touch service, it would have been difficult to overlook how little customer service value I was getting for my money compared to the alternatives.