I'll add my $.02 on this...
I'm in the same area as the OP. Make around $88K/year, ended up buying a Tesla 70D with Autopilot. The car did cost around 1x my salary before taxes. And I'm okay with this. I'm still investing my money, and still putting money away for retirement. I ran the math on a spreadsheet, and figured out that I can live the lifestyle I wanted while owning a Tesla. I don't travel that much, I don't have any kids, and I live in a modest house (no need for a big house when it's just me).
Let me put it this way. I was driving a 2012 Dodge RAM 1500 Limited truck for 24,000 miles a year. The cost of that truck plus the gas I was spending equaled to the payment I am making on this car. And I'm okay with that. YMMV, but if you can live with having the car and still do the things you want to do (don't forget about retirement), then by all means do it. You have one life, and no dress rehearsal. If you can afford to do it, then do it.