I guess I assumed the Tesla would have alerted us to a problem which it didn’t until my husband had to work to handle the steering and I saw the screen advised a flat. Once on the hard shoulder we looked, it clearly was not a flat but a complete blow outI know... I'll grab my coat.... I can sympathise as Ive had a blowout maybe 20 years ago and only that once in my lifetime of many fast cars and bikes. However the tyre was really old/ feeble. I won't get to engrossed in this but imho, Its unfair to say your Tesla is at fault to what happened. Maybe the tyre was faulty from factory and on the basis that Tesla (as a business) sold it to you, this might carry some recourse if you can prove it or it might be a case to sue the government/council for the poor state some of our roads are in.
Either way, happy you're ok
You’re so right about the state of a lot roads