I live in MN and have family in Western ND. That currently puts me 500 miles after the last Supercharger and in an area where there are not even level 2 chargers available. Here is my list in order.
Battery/range is the biggest thing (would love 300 miles going 75 in 10 degrees)
Black leather (wife doesn't like light interiors and have a child likely to spill things)
Not black or white exterior
Tech pkg/whatever gets me up to at least AP1 function
Upgraded stereo
Cold Weather pkg (never realized how much I'd love a heated steering wheel until I got one)
Dual motors will mostly only be if it increases range a decent amount, but a nice have for the weather
Things I don't care for/won't get
Air Suspension
Pano roof, would rather have better noise/temp insulation
Dual Chargers (not sure who would have a 100A circuit I can use, current 48A will probably be max I could find to use)
Full autonomous driving, would only feel I could use it 6 months/year (if legally allowed) and AP1 is all you really need for driving through ND. Besides I'm buying this car so I can have fun driving it, not to be chauffeured around