Curious how many miles of AP driving you think you did before it gained your trust. I'm still not there quite yet personally (1st time tesla owner with a week under my belt). I see brakes lights in front of me and think "ok car.... anytime now."
I love it so far btw!
At highway speeds, I trust EAP on open roads with light to moderate traffic. When in bumper to bumper traffic at slow speeds, it is fine also.
I don't trust it in the rain and I was disappointed this past weekend how or handles in high cross winds. It was far less stable than manual driving.
It'll get there and I'm glad I made the purchase.