Same bad experience in Fremont. I was never offered to pick up my car in Santana or Palo Alto but it was defaulted to Fremont. Is picking it up in another SC's an option for the future owners?
Perhaps for Inventory cars not. However, in my case, I ordered new, so I could order through any store (in person) and have it delivered to them. I am not sure of the full range of options available, however; if it is an option to have an inventory car delivered to a store for delivery, I'd pay the extra, just in the 40% chance it would be a more reliable and better experience, even if it added delays.
Here's what I'd expect, if you are able to request an inventory car transferred to a store, in a typical "bad case":
1. Cost more to pick up at store.
2. Delay shipping to store.
3. Shipping damage.
4. Store receives car. Store looks it over, finds trouble, and starts to repair it.
5. Store takes 3-6 weeks to repair.
6. Store schedules delivery with you.
7. You see car, and note more problems.
8. Store fixes most of those problems, another 4 weeks.
9. You pick up, note a few more problems, and schedule for fixing in 1-2 months.
That seems better than a Fremont delivery, to me; at least, the store people won't treat you like you're a foreigner, and get totally baffled by your questions and leave you in purgatory forever. They would have the common sense to catch a few issues and fix them. Then, they'd work with you on the rest.
Your info says you are from Sunnyvale. I think they have a store. I'd be un-surprised to hear that they are an OK delivery store. Most stores seem reasonable. Definitely some stores are better than others; to any prospective owner, I always recommend to go get a few reviews of the closest Tesla Stores to you.
I think the breakdown that really happens is that anyplace that is too impersonal just doesn't have the human connection to engender good work. The Fremont Factory seems to have this attitude that they somehow service half of the world's Teslas, and they must be good enough just because of their name, take it or leave it, from the notion that they are the center of it all, and it gets kind of cold.