The truth is that Tesla needed something to try to reassure the public, regulators, whoever, that drivers were paying attention when autopilot was engaged. The autopilot system was never designed to have this type of feedback, so the "safety system" is just a hack. It's a fallacy to believe that this registered torque on the wheel is keeping you any safer. Look at every accident that makes news involving Teslas on autopilot that are running into concrete barriers, firetrucks, or whatever. All those drivers were satisfying autopilot to at least the extent that it was still engaged upon impact. Tesla will publish some "facts" about how the autopilot system did not detect input from the driver for 12 seconds prior to impact, or that multiple warnings were flashed to the driver during the previous 10 minutes prior to the crash. All of us who drive on autopilot know that is just a bunch of BS. When I am most attentive to a situation with autopilot engaged, I hold the wheel with two hands, balanced at 10 and 2. This is guaranteed to generate all sorts of warnings.
On the other hand, when I am traveling on wide open country highway driving, with just the occasional car or semi to pass, I put a weight on the wheel. It is just so much less fatiguing for long distance travel. I still monitor what the car is doing and situations that are approaching. When I see a potential autopilot difficulty approach, I put both hands back on the wheel... and inevitably get a flashing IC.
A weight on the wheel is no more a hack than the "safety system" it is trying to appease. Just be safe and drive the car, regardless of how you choose to do it.