Oh man, wouldn't know where to begin looking to find what page I posted it on.
Basically a year or more after I got my Tesla (and had been charging with a home 14-50 outlet) I was making YouTube videos and several folks pointed out that my outlet was installed upside down. I strong-armed it to turn it right side up. Thick copper does NOT like to be forced so when I turned back on the breaker there was a poof, a spark, and some smoke. Called the Fire Dept. out of an abundance of caution and they used some kind of meter to confirm it wasn't "hot" anymore.
Kids, do not try this at home.