Called Fremont again.
They said their system expects my car to be delivered to Fort Myers, on the 22nd so i must be getting a VIN in the next 5-7 days if they plan on having it there by then. Luckily I've called every day to different locations on purpose and every one has the same answer so there has to be some truth to this.
After 62 days of fear, hope, excite, despair, ecstatic, bad dreams, good dreams, and the wacky roller coaster ride of buying a Tesla, i am starting to mellow out, since i feel like its actually coming very soon.