Get the MYP. The build gets better every day, but it's still a crapshoot. You get what you get, you make a couple trips to the service center, and you decide to live with the few things that don't drive you crazy.
I'm on my first Colorado winter and the Pilots have been fine. The wife's MYLR with CCS2 is the ski car.
Don't go too oversized or your speedo will be off and Tesla might blame the non-stock size if something breaks.
Good luck!